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Win Your Child Custody War


Table of Contents

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This Is The Anything Dedication Acknowledgments
Disclaimer Reviews and Praise Credentials Vs Credibility 
1: War or Peace
Questions and Answers Pray for Peace - Prepare for War Intended Audience
Parenting Plan Where Do You Fit? Married - Unmarried Parents
Whose Custody Case is this? Stepmother's Story Best Interest
Who Should Not Fight Reasons People Have Custody Worst Reasons to Fight
Abuse Excuse Dead Hand Children as Pawns
Factors Influencing Decisions Custody Arrangements Interim or Temporary Custody
Sole Custody Joint Custody Physical and Legal
Joint Physical Joint Legal Split Custody
Alternating or Divided  Bird's Nest Custody  Grandparent Custody 
Suddenly Super Parent  Police and Restraining Orders  Life's Time Line 
Short Time Line  Non-Custodial Emotions
2: Issues - Non-Issues
Their Problem or Yours Child Endangerment Opposition is a Control Freak
Control and No Responsibility Blended Family Mental Illness
Lengthy Child Care Verbal or Mental Abuse False Accusations
Frequent Moves Physical Abuse Alcohol Use or Abuse
Drug Use or Abuse They Only Want to Hurt Me Visitation Interference
Lying to Child, You and Court Kidnapping Kidnapping Threat
Domestic Violence Significant Other - Step-Parent Alternative Lifestyle
Best Interest of the Child Neglect Poor Living Conditions
Responsibility for Problems Your Expectations Common Child Custody Myths
3: You Are the Package
State of Mind or Mindlessness Safety Nets Group I Need Doesn't Exist
Why Are You Here? New Relationships Invest in Yourself
On the Hot Seat, So What? Unsolicited Help The Rescuer
Emotional Vampires Thanks, But No Thanks Rest and Relaxation
Aid to the Enemy Right Thinking It's Your Battle Because
Delegation Personal Security Bunker (Your Home)
Maneuvers, Planned Action Retraining From Now On
No Sniveling or Whining The Most Important Witness Dress for Custody Success
What Do I Tell People on My Side? Confidentiality - Witnesses I Need a Shrink
Secret Help: Psychologist When the Police are Called You Can Get Arrested For
Warrantless Search Why You Will Be Arrested If You Are Arrested
Confidentiality - Inventories Parent as a Soldier Ask the Real Question
Duck Muck The One I Feed A Need To Listen
Proper Responses Talk, Your Friend Will Listen Real Victims
Counterfeit Victims Victim Mentality Everything is My Fault
Victim or Victor Internet Security and Privacy E-Mail Monitoring
Hacking E-Mail Jail for Reading E-mail E-mail Security
Computer Monitoring Your Computer Their Attorney 
4: Child's Perspective 
Child and Parent Match Four Types of Attachment I Want to Stay with You
Children Who Want to Choose Children Who Can't Choose Choice Case
Hearing the Child's Voice Stepparents Significant Others
Non Biological Caretaker Danger Psychological Parent Go Where they are Heard
Child's Realities Dealing with Child's Fears What You Can Do To Help
Discipline Not What I Meant to Say Styles of Parental Discipline
You Are Always On My Mind Document Now For Later Children Stir Things Up
Unhappy Children Children's Responsibilities Info Children Should Know
Walk the Talk Help Children Be Responsible Seeing Abuse is Abuse
Buying the Pain Away Too Much Hurt... Accidentally Such Behavior is Bad Parenting
Interviewing Children Confidentiality - Children Confidentiality - Spouse
Revenge Letter of Adjustment 
5: PAS 
Parental Alienation Syndrome Hostility in Child Custody What's Not PAS
PAS Is Actual Alienating Person False Accusations
Unconscious Messages Conscious Messages Parent is a Chameleon
Combating PAS Action May Proceed for PAS PAS Excluded
D.H.S.S. Report on PAS Healing the PAS Child Malicious Mother Syndrome
False Accusations SAID Syndrome Narcissistic 
6: Smoking 
For Smokers Second-Hand Smoke Is Child Still Exposed
Children's Surgery Parental Smoking - Child's IQ Smoking and Autism
Sperm Trouble for Future And Mothers Court's Reaction
Passive Smoke Make Them Stop Cases
7: Religion 
Value to the Individual Children Separation of Church - State
Christian Jewish Intra-Faith Challenges
Cases Jehovah's Witnesses Wiccan
8: Breastfeeding 
Mother's Fears Father's Fears Benefits
Pump and Go Breast Milk Shelf Life Primary Caretaker
9: Homeschooling 
An International Movement Schedule and Methods In Custody Cases
Qualified to Home school Pro Homeschooling Assembling Advocates
Proving a Pro Position Against Homeschooling Parent's Fears
Assembling Advocates Proving a Con Position Example of Termination
10: Grandparent or Kinship Care
Heartbreaking Civil War Guilt In Abundance Family #1
Family #2 Family #3 Family #4
Family #5 Grandparents on the Front Line Videotapes 
Rights - Responsibilities  Federal Laws Families as Resource #1
A Long Tradition Stepparent Adoption Co-Guardianship
Case #1 Case #2 Appointment of Guardian
Standby Guardianship Getting Started Example Form
Cases Grandparents v Father 
11: Job - Custody Connection 
Running on Empty Stability - Reliability Work From Home
Cost to the Company Co-Workers Negative Impact
Supervisors Enabling Behaviors The Supervisor Must
The Supervisor Can't Violence in the Workplace 2003 Incidents
Crisis Situations Explain Your Crisis Confidentiality - Employment
Your Personal Information Employee Evaluation Lost Jobs
Jobs Not Taken Back-Up Plan
12: Strategies 
Reality Check Well, Get Over It Desire vs Reality
Looking Past 2005 Changes in the Wind Strategic Interaction
Strategy = Planning Deliberate, Rational Enemy Specific Techniques
Live and Let Live Tit For Tat Look Ahead
Tester Tranquilizer Exploitative Retaliation
Attrition Deterrence Reciprocity
Random Agendas Your Motives
Changing Strategies Defensive Behaviors Remedies for Behaviors
Delay Strategic Case Boosters Activities to Cultivate
13: Conflict Resolution
Problems They Cause Problem Solving Why They Do That
Pre-Contact Planning Negotiation Why Cooperate?
Opposition Will Cooperate? Reduce Differences Aim to Negotiate, Not to Win
Overcoming Obstacles If You Have to Fight Discover Hidden Agendas
Children's Agenda Children Have Agendas Conflict
Methods of Thinking Moral Obligation Changing Strategies
Mediator with Attorneys Not Really the Same Using a Professional
Mediators Court Facilitated Attorneys
Three Reasons to Negotiate Right Place - Time to Negotiate Preparation
Assumptions Guidelines for Discussion How to Negotiate
14: Friend or Enemy? 
Make Words Work for You It's Your Army; Censor It Loose Lips Sink Ships
Security Breach If You Disregard This Advice Fear and Communication
Communication Test Dealing with Fear News Flash Junkies
Safe Answers Friendly Fire People Who Cause Damage
Important to Ponder Family In-laws and Outlaws Your Parents
Opposition's Parents The Agendas of Your Friends Friendly Strangers
Know Your Enemy Data Sheet Noncombatants 
Data Sheet Form Information and Misinformation Source of Information
Sabotage 6 Year Case Study Case Killers
List of Activities to Avoid Hurt You Worse Than Them Anger and Joy
You've Been In Court Too Long 
15: Documentation - Evidence
Contact Logs Reasons for Documentation Detective
Attorney Evaluator Guardian ad Litem
Telephone Log Methods of Documentation Telephone Contact Log
Admissible Evidence Backdooring Evidence Exclusion of Evidence
Web Sites as Evidence Off Line Web Sites Live On Chain of Evidence
Spoliation of Evidence Spoliation = Judgment? Take Photos of Everything
Children Love Em� The Dark Side Evidence - No One Cares
16: Contact Log 
Is It Worth Doing? Simplicity and Speed Confidentiality - Documentation
Crucial Data to Record Codes for Log Book Contact Log 1991-2004
17: Equipment - Services 
Equipment Cell Phone Video Clips Recording Phone Calls
Interspousal Wiretap Exception Invasion of Privacy Services
Daycare Workers Parent Locator Service Testing Services
Lie Detector Test Paternity Testing DNA - Genetic Testing
Court Ordered Gathering DNA Samples Necessary for DNA Testing
Challenges to DNA Testing Negative Test - Still Father Paternity May Be Settled
Contesting Paternity Can't Sue Wife for Lying Computer Data Retrieval
18: Drugs - Alcohol
Drug Tests Urine Analysis Passive Inhalation
Hair Analysis Will You Take a Drug Test Factor 1000 Impairment Test
Alcohol - Drug Tests Random Testing Court Room Samples
Hair Analysis Urine Analysis False Positives
Passive Inhalation Club Drugs Prescription Drug Abuse
19: Pro Se 
Representing Yourself First Things First No Pro Se Recovery of Fees
What Law School Teaches Getting Started Pro SE Hang Around the Court
Court Preparation In Court Precedent
Forced to be Pro Se Not Held Same As Attorney No Recovery of Fees
20: Attorney
Right to Free Counsel Scumbag�s Attorney Legal Aid
Navy Legal Assistance Shared Attorney How to Find an Attorney
Initial Consultation Won't Take Your Case Good Old Attorney System
More Bang for the Buck Secret Weapon Don't Hire Attorneys Who
Sorting Out the Bad Apples Before 10: AM After 5: PM Bad Rap Attorneys Get
Confidentiality - Attorney Cannot Do Can Do
Keep a Good Attorney Happy Military Attorney Soldier-Mom AWOL
Case Analysis Communicate with Attorney Advised Non-Compliance
Restraining Order  Dealing with a RO Police Liability?
Personal Protection Order Communicating with Enemy Communicate with Attorney
Sex and Your Attorney Before You Assign Win Their Attorney Over
Get Rid of Their Attorney Disqualifying Their Attorney Attorney Invoice
Attorney and the Liar Accessory to Your Crime Attorney Can Fire You
My Way or the Highway Please Release Me, Let Me Go Indifferent or Incompetent
Reasons to Fire Attorney Fire a Bad Attorney Getting Your Documentation
New Attorney = Delay Lawsuits Against Attorneys Suing Your Attorney
21: Detectives 
Covert Intelligence Division Can Do Right One for You
Interview the Detective Understanding the Costs Avoid Hot Shots
A Snake Is A Snake Is... Keep A Good Detective Happy Help Your Detective
Stay Alert Opposition's Detective Report Examples
Are You Are Being Watched Getting the Evidence Surveillance Terms
Assignment Example #1 Assignment Example #2 Assignment Example #3
Discovery Bonus In Report Assignment Example #4 Assignment Example #5
Assignment Example #6 Assignment Example #7 Assignment Example #8
Confidentiality - Detective Sex and Your Detective Detective to Outlaw
22: Evaluations 
Purpose for an Evaluation Types of Evaluations Who and Why?
Attitude with the Evaluator Facing the Other Parent When There are Two of You
How Important Are They? Negative Information How Do I Prove...
Positive Information What are They Observing Confidentiality - Evaluator
If You Got to Go Make it Easier for Children Evaluator's Report #1
Evaluator's Report #2 Evaluator's Report #3 Evaluator's Report #4
Evaluator's Report #5 Evaluator's Report #6 Home Study
What Costs are Involved? Prepare for the Home Study Book/ Video of Your Life
Letters of Support Letters of Love Letter to Document Violation
Help from Hell What are they Looking for? Evaluating the Evaluation
Data to Identify Concerns Frequent Moving Home Study Report #1
Compare Apples to Oranges Condition of Child #1 Condition of Child #2
Home Study Report #2 Home Study Report #3 Eliminate the Trash
Flaws in the Process Second Home Study Evaluating the Study
Filing a Formal Complaint
23: Experts
Qualifications Costs Involved What Can Experts Do?
Some are Prostitutes Hiring Your Expert Confidentiality - Expert
Your Expert In Court Peer Review Attacking Qualifications
Opposition's Expert Loose Cannon Depose Opposition's Expert
Opponent's Expert in Court Stricter Standards for Experts Tainted Expert Witness
24: Psychologists - Tests 
War of the Minds Who Can Perform Tests? Types of Psychologists
Check Out the Psychologist Psychologist Contact Log Attitude with the Psychologist
Before the Appointment Facing the Other Parent Recommendation = Decision
When There are Two of You What are they Looking for? Positive Character Traits
Send Up Warning Flags Early The Process of Evaluation 10 Tests for Adults
Confidentiality - Psychologist Sex and the Psychologist Filing a Formal Complaint
Change Where the Children Live? 11 Tests for Children Challenge Evaluations
Psych. Evaluation #1 Psych. Evaluation #2 Evaluating the Psychologist #1
Handle a Bad Evaluation Filing a Formal Complaint Evaluating the Psychologist #2
25: Visitation 
Types of Visitation Is a Right of the Child Grandparent Visitation
Exercising Visitation Successful Visitation Your Interference with Your Visit
Passports and Travel Visas Fear of Flying Children with Disabilities
My Child Hates Visitation The Only Right Message Custodial Responsibilities
Override of Right to Travel Non-Custodial Responsibilities I Don't Want to Visit You
Whim or Survival A Phone Call Away Parental Interference
Prove Denial of Visitation Proving A Denial Tort - Interference
Visitation Interference Interference Money Visitation Bond
26: Move Away 
No Move Away Provision Best Interest Move Away Limited Presumption
Presumption for Move Away Order Requiring Notice Proposed Relocation
Nondisclosure of Relocation Failure To Give Notice Failure to Obey
Objection to Relocation Order For/Against Relocation Relocation Package
Mother Allowed to Move Mother Cannot Move CA Move-Away Cases
27: Lies and Perjury 
Types of Lies Types of Liars Why do they Lie?
Best Reasons Not to Lie Conflicting Truths Memory's Imperfections
Exaggerations - Fabrications Portrait of the Liar Who are Better Liars?
When is Someone Lying Lies by Strangers Lies by Familiars
Professional Lie Detectors Seeing the Pattern of the Liar Why Liars Get Caught
Liars Even Lie to Themselves Recruiting Troops Defense Against Lies
The Grand Lie Handling the Liar Lie Suppression
Sue the Liar Use Their Lies Against Them Proof or Poof
Impeachment of a Witness Children and the Liar When Children Lie
Where Do You Fit? Non-Fatal Flaw Your Lies
Cold Turkey Truth Start Repairing the Damage Admission of Wrongdoing
Can't Pay Witness to Not Testify Correcting Old Lies Identifying the Liar to Others
Telling the Awful Truth Perjury in Family Court! Attorneys and Lies
Court Calls a Liar a Liar No Lie Double Talk
28: Panic Situations 
Pro Active Steps Threat Analysis Threat Analysis Questions
Personal Safety Plan Learn from the Pain of Others Panic Situations, Examples
# 01 Legal Papers # 02 Misuse of Money # 03 Parent Moved Child
# 04 Job/Phone Harassment # 05 Bruises on Child # 06 Implied Threats
# 07 Accusation of Abuse # 08 Abandonment # 09 Restrict Child's Calls
# 10 Child Not Available # 11 Public Display of Affection # 12 Stops Child's Mail
# 13 Removed from Benefits # 14 No Holiday Visitation # 15 Calls Upset the Child
# 16 Child In Danger 331 # 17 Exchange Changed # 18 Other Parent Has Cancer
# 19 Restrict Time with Child # 20 Bad-mouthing You # 21 Working Things Out
# 22 Denial of Contact # 23 Other Parent Costing $$ # 24 Parental Alienation
# 25 Demand for Information # 26 Disneyland Parent 334 # 27 Grandparent Visitation
# 28 Secret Court Documents # 29 Different Parenting Style # 30 Conflict at Exchange
# 31 Misuse of Evaluation # 32 Ex Parte Hearing - Order # 33 Child Pressuring Parent
# 34 No Money, No Attorney # 35 Other Lawyer Costing $ # 36 Grandparents� Custody
# 37 Child's Preference # 38 Teenager, No Visitation # 39 Attorney Wants to Quit
# 40 We Comply, They Don't # 41 Accused of Sexual Abuse # 42 Visit Home Is Dangerous
# 43 Opposition Won't Pay # 44 Lied, Forged, Ignore Court # 45 Parent Threatens Suicide
# 46 Religious Grounds # 47 Lawyer Screwed Me # 48 No Insurance Card
# 49 Volunteer Spy # 50 Judge's Friend # 51 Internet Lurking
# 52 Prosecution for Perjury # 53 Public Harassment # 54 Change of Circumstances
# 55 Lesbian Mom # 56 Ex Excluded as Guardian # 57 Credit Report, No Permission
# 58 Bio-Dad v Adoptive # 59 Step-Mom Wants Custody # 60 Computer Evidence
# 61 Ex Won't Complete Move # 62 Military Non-Support # 63 Unfit Parent
# 64 Grandparent Interference # 65 Searched My House # 66 Confidentiality of Case
# 67 Fined for Legal Advice # 68 Grinding Me Down # 69 Leaving, Owes Support
# 70 Spouse Tips Police # 71 Bipolar Disorder # 72 Child's Right to Choose
# 73 Back to Court # 74 Child's Medial Ignored # 75 Dangerous Teen
# 76 I Need Partial Custody # 77 Trashed By The Expert   # 78 Kid's Positive Drug Test
# 79 In Jail, Terminate Rights # 80 Absent Dad Returns # 81 Drunks Driving Child
# 82 Money Peaks Interest # 83 Idealizing Absent Parent # 84 Adult Abused as Child
# 85 Stepmom as Mom # 86 Info on New Mom # 87 Custodial Parent Died
# 88 Child Support Harassment Evaluating Your Situation Your Panic Situation List
Dealing With Your Anger The Anger of Others   Anger in Our Children
29: Suicide - Murder
Violence Warning Signs A Father's Suicide Note Statistics and Results
Murder and Custody Possible Murder-Suicide Kills Children and Suicides
Suicide After Jail Time Courthouse Suicide Suicide to Manipulate Others
The Truth About Suicide Handling the Angry Person Feeling Suicidal
What to Tell Children Children's Feelings About Loss The Famous Aren't Immune
30: Neglect - Abuse - Violence
Categories of Neglect and Abuse Indications - Negligence or Abuse Child's Reactions to Abuse
Penalty for Reporting Abuse Child Protective Services When CPS Gets A Call
Grounds to Continue Investigation Court Ordered Cooperation CPS Knocks at Your Door
Order a Copy of the Policy Manual Get Records from the Agency Removal of the Children
If Your Child Is Removed Motivation of Reporters Abuser's Reaction
Arrest for Abuse Explanations of Abuse Terms Getting Child Back from CPS 
Has Child Been Abused? Anatomical Detailed Dolls Munchausen by Proxy
31: Allegations 
Accusation of Abuse Preventing False Accusations Deal with False Accusations
False Accusations Examined Profile for False Accuser Post Accusation Behavior
Children - False Accusations Requesting Supervised Visit Complying with Supervision
Supervised Visitation Options Disproving False Accusations   First Hand Story
Sue for False Accusations
32: Supervised Visitation 
Types of Supervision How Supervision Helps Attaining a Court Order
Cost Preparing Your Child Order Example
Reporting to the Court Requesting Supervision For the Other Parent
Your Supervised Visitation  Child in Danger Violence Assessment
Police Violent Patterns Won't Change When Will It End
Abuse Behaviors at Visitation Custodial Parent Stress
33: Kidnapping 
Abduction-Resistant Child Kidnapping Prevention
Profile of the Abductor Kidnapping Warning Signals Has Child Been Kidnapped? 
Emotions During Kidnapping Kidnapping Damages Awarded
Kidnap Friendly Countries International Abduction Retrieval Questionnaire
Legal Steps for Recovery Family Tree The Paper Trail
Places to Look Money If You are Forced to Leave
Emergency Jurisdiction Ends Laws Can't Hide Child Parents Jailed
34: Discovery/Deposition
Feast or Famine Surprise and Ambush I Have to Tell Them What?
And If I Won't? Fruit of the Poisonous Tree Interrogatory
Objecting in Interrogatory Production and Inspection Documents and Records
Produced by Mistake Tape-recorded Conversations Confidentiality - Documentation
Photographs and Video Tapes Medical Records First Strike
Deposition Explanation of a Deposition Four Reasons to Depose
Objection to Discovery Costs for Deposition Best Time to Depose
Second Deposition Prepare for a Deposition Your Deposition
Psychological - Emotional Prep Attorney Preparation Information is not Protected
Deposition Instructions During Your Deposition Facing the Mad Dog Attorney
Check Your Deposition Ending the Deposition Correcting Deposition
Video Deposition or Court False Documentation Who Would You Depose?
Opposition's Deposition Check the Deposition Check Expert's Deposition
Witnesses� Deposition Deposition Summary Deposition Indexing
Disprove Statements Failure to Comply
35: Judges 
Hierarchy in Law Two Levels of Law Welcome to the Hotel California
Jurisdiction Shopping Getting a Good Judge Like No Other Law
Research Your Judge Those Who Render Opinions Which Judge is Mine?
Even a Blind Judge will See Who Do You Think You Are? Judge Should Be Removed
Judges Can Step Down Grounds for Removal Three Types of Removal
Motion May Fail or Backfire Example: Motion for Recusal Affidavit, Support of Motion
Recusal Cases Venue to Eliminate Bad Judge Venue Case
Whose Custody Case is this? How Judges Decide Judicial Power, Can Do
What Judges Cannot Do You Can't Do with the Judge Your Expectations
A Matter of Perception Judicial Immunity   Abuse of Discretion
Filing a Formal Complaint Judge in Hot Water Confidentiality - Judge
Judge's Ruling on Motion Judge or Jury Judges are not Immune
36: Child's Testimony 
Child's Own Attorney   Demystifying the GAL   When the GAL Becomes Involved
Investigating Issues Factors Considered After the Investigation
Replace the GAL Alternatives to Open Court Ten Tips to Help Children
Confidentiality - Children Children Feel Guilt Child's Need to Know
Why Children Don't Lie Well Don't Tell Children to Lie Who Knows the Child Lied?
Children Testifying in Court Competence to Testify Knowing Truth from Lie
Challenging Testimony Fear, Bias, Prejudice Suppress Testimony
Content of Testimony Ryan Factors Anger Against You
Disallowing Testimony 
37: Court 
Bias Time Line The Ultimate Battlefield
Types of Courts Types of Cases All Court Appearances Equal?
Pre-trial Conference How Subpoenas Work I Won't Respond
Elements of Contempt Defenses to Contempt Prima Facie Evidence of Contempt
Court Before Court Your Case Strategy Court Presentation Outline
Non-Issue Your Assignment Refreshed Memory
Last Review Court Room Tips What Is a Witness?
Witness Preparation Confidentiality - Witnesses Contempt of Court
Documenting Contempt Filing a Contempt Motion Defending Contempt Charges
Speak to Inequity  Visual Impact/Court Clothes Make the Witness
Major Problem Areas Eye of the Beholder In Court
Witnesses� Demeanor Attitude What a Witness Cannot
Witness Guide for Questions Dodging Enemy Fire Their Bullet Your Target
Types of Questions Types of Questioning Direct Examination
Cross Examination Re-Direct Not Sure! Not Sure?
Frontal Assault All on Same Side? Who will Attend the Trial?
Your Day In Court TOC  Testimony It Isn't Over When It's Over
Appeal the Threat The Appeal Process Should You Worry?
Confidentiality - Court Vexatious Litigation Civil Appeal Example
Modification Court Corruption 
38: Costs
No One Cares When is War Chest Spent Cutting Costs
1. Negotiation 2. Fast Tracking 3. Rent-A-Judge
Bankruptcy Bill Collectors Acknowledge Paternity
Are You Poor Enough? According to the Court According to the IRS
Dependent Credits Hidden Assets Tax Gifts and Insurance
Earned Income Credit Use a Good Tax Advisor Termination/Non-Compliance
Termination of Rights Termination and Adoption Voluntary Relinquishment
Termination - Adoption Stepchild Social Study Report Decree of Termination / Involuntary Relinquishment
39: Child Support
Verification of Income Self Employment Lottery Winnings
Hidden Sources of Income Income Not On Tax Forms Child Support Theory
Ability to Pay Ability to Earn Costs to Rear a Child
Child Support Starts Child Support Ends When Appropriate Support?
Too Much or Too Little? Imputed Income Below the Guidelines
Guideline Departures Temporary Modification No See - No Pay
Can't See No-pay Can't Pay Advised Not to Pay
Who, When, How, Where No Place to Send Payment No Court Order
Appeal Doesn't Stop Support Best Attitude for Paying Support Remove the Sting of Paying
Support as a Expense/Debit Security for Support Awards Out-of-Pocket Medical Expenses
Support and Bankruptcy Best Attitude for Receiving Support Not Spent on Children
Best/Worst States for Collection Child Support Doesn't Come Collection Methods
Where Child Support is Spent International Enforcement Statute of Limitations
Criminal Non-support Under the Table Employment Assistance with Back Support
Waiting Too Long to Collect Military Service and Support Proceed Without Deployed Dad
Child Support Court Cases Support for Kidnapped Child Concealed Child
Hide the Child, Hide the Money Age, Not Activity Religious Objection to Support
Reduced for Time with Child Reduced by Benefits Father's Debt Service
Forced to Provide College Hardship Deduction Reversed Case: License Revocation
Passport Restrictions Lottery Payments Frozen One Dad's Story
40: End or Beginning
Forgiveness When You Win Custody Is This the Win I Wanted?
Mental House Cleaning The Hard Part To Build a Healthy Child
And the Beat Goes On When You Lose Custody Emotions and Feelings
Many Emotions - Most Hurt Now is not Forever Make the Not-So-Good Better
Let Go Normal Feelings Usual Challenges
Helpful Applications Safe Answers Concentrate on the Children
New Traditions Holidays Major Holidays
After You're Gone Seek Support Start a Support Group
ANYWAY New Relationships Red Flags
41: Miscellaneous Cases
Use of Case Cites Tender Years Doctrine Real Advantage Test
Shared Parenting Doubtfire Clause or First Right Constitutional Right
Fair Law - Unfair Enforcement Fifth Amendment Can't Choose Modification
Right to Raise Children Change of Circumstance Expunged Records
Lesbian and Gay Parents Glossary of Terms   Index

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